Fear, Panic and Control

How to stay calm and in control

How to stay calm and in control

Redefine what being in control means Many people imagine control during birth as staying quiet, avoiding fear, or ensuring that every event follows a preferred sequence. In reality, control is better understood as participation in decisions, access to understandable information, and the ability to communicate what you need. You may feel frightened, cry, vocalise, ask […]

Feeling overwhelmed during labor explained

Feeling overwhelmed during labor explained

Why labor can feel overwhelming Labor is a neuroendocrine, sensory, psychological, and relational event rather than pain alone. The uterus contracts repeatedly, the cervix dilates, and pressure increases as the fetus descends. These sensations may become more frequent and intense over several hours, leaving little time to recover between contractions. The person giving birth may […]

Feeling disconnected or shocked

Feeling disconnected or shocked

What feeling disconnected or shocked can mean People use the word shock in different ways. Immediately after an event, shock may describe an acute stress response: heightened arousal, trembling, emotional flattening, difficulty concentrating, nausea, or a strong sense that what happened cannot be real. In the days or weeks following birth, the nervous system may […]