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Relational aggression

Relational aggression is hurtful behavior that damages relationships through exclusion, humiliation, or manipulation.

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Repairing a friendship after hurt feelings

Repairing a friendship after hurt feelings

Why hurt feelings can linger in a child Friendship hurts often last longer than adults expect because the social brain treats rejection and conflict as threats to belonging. Children may show tearfulness, irritability, clinginess, withdrawal, or repetitive talking about the event. These reactions are not proof that the child is “too sensitive”; they are common […]

Teaching children that friendship does not require constant agreement

Teaching children that friendship does not require constant agreement

Why disagreement is part of friendship Children are still learning how to manage desire, fairness, and frustration. That means even close friends will sometimes want different games, different rules, or different turns. Research on middle childhood shows that conflict can be a normal feature of friendship, and it may even happen more often among friends […]

Supporting children when friendships fade naturally

Supporting children when friendships fade naturally

Why friendships sometimes fade naturally Children do not form static social bonds. In middle childhood and adolescence, friendships often change as children develop different interests, move into new classrooms, join new activities, or become more selective about whose company feels comfortable. A friendship that once felt close can quietly loosen without either child doing something […]